2003
BAFTA Awards
最佳男配角｜最佳女配角提名
Directed by 理查・寇蒂斯
最佳男配角｜最佳女配角提名
《愛是您・愛是我》在2017年為公益活動紅鼻子日（Red Nose Day）拍了特別篇《Red Nose Day Actually》，多組原班人馬回歸，舉牌男娶到凱特摩絲，休葛蘭還重現了他最痛恨的熱舞。紅鼻子日從1988年由喜劇救濟基金會（Comic Relief）在英國首次創辦，本片導演李察·寇蒂斯為創始者之一。
飾演出軌丈夫的Alan Rickman在2016年過世，劇中飾演妻子的Emma Thompson也因此婉拒特別篇的演出。Emma和Alan合作數次，戲外也是多年好友。在我的同齡人中，最有名的組合大概是哈利波特的占卜教授崔老妮和石內卜。
國中時在學校第一次看《愛是您・愛是我》，當然那時候看的是刪減版，不過一直對色情片那段謎之有印象。追根溯源，可能是Martin Freeman這個片段的迷因太深入人心（有興趣可搜martin freeman love actually gif）。現在重看這對，做最入世的事，談最純情的愛，反差感有夠可愛。
導演理查・寇蒂斯是浪漫喜劇大家，他在牛津大學認識了羅溫·艾金森，並一起創作了《豆豆先生》。羅溫·艾金森在《愛是您・愛是我》中也有出演一角，在紅鼻子特別篇中他仍是那個過度包裝的櫃檯店員。原先的劇情設計中羅溫·艾金森是個聖誕天使，過度包裝是為了阻止Alan Rickman買項鍊給外遇對象。
最經典的舉字牌告白橋段，在1965年Bob Dylan的《Subterranean Homesick Blues》MV中就有類似的設計。不過MV中男子舉的字卡並非對話，而是歌詞中的重點單字。畫面和音樂有些許速度的落差，發現牌子換太快時男子還會手動lag一下，超級好玩。
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